I am the proud daughter of a U.S. Marine and the honored sister of two Airmen. I have the privilege of living in a military town where heroes are a part of every day interactions. The sounds of freedom rattle the windows of my apartment and my neighbors all wear camouflage uniforms.
As part of living near a base there comes the reality of knowing the cost of such freedoms. There are men and women that leave this town and other's like it with their squadrons to report for duty on the other side of the world. They leave behind husbands, wives, children, and friends. They also leave behind every day things we take for granted like regularly running hot water, clean sheets, and grocery stores around the corner.
As an even greater cost, some of these men and women don't
return home with the ability to hug their families once more. They are escorted
by a fellow military member to a place like Dover Air Force Base in a coffin
draped with the very flag they died protecting to be put at rest.
Yet, there is another set of families who don't even get this privilege. I use this word privilege carefully considering the gravestone above is that of a dear friend of mine and visiting his grave was never considered a privilege. It was a circumstance in my life I wished had never happened but recently it was brought to my attention that I am lucky to have a memorial to still be able to give him my love and honor.
This other set of loved ones are left behind by those who show this same bravery. They too are mothers, fathers, wives, husbands, and siblings who bid their loved ones farewell with the same fear, hope, and prayer we had for our dear Timothy. The difference? These brave and honorable men and women go away to fight and never return home. They are declared Missing In Action.
Since World War 2 there have been 83,432 men and women declared MIA. There are thousands of loved ones with aching hearts and lost hope clinging to their name. When someone joins a branch of the military, their family signs up too. They might not carry a gun and wear a uniform but they too make a sacrifice. They sign over their loved one with honor and are proud to do so but they sacrifice too.
In my opinion, it is the ultimate sadness to lose a loved one. Words do can not describe the feeling of loss. It is part of life and is all in God's plan but none the less, it hurts. But I do believe the loss of hope experienced by this group of people makes it all the more painful and unbearable.
Never forget the costs of freedom. It truly isn't free.